Better Late Than Never

Cycle Day 1

The one time I actually wanted my period to show up so I can start my first IVF cycle, it goes AWOL. I'm usually a regular 28 days kinda gal so the fact that she was a week late was really out of character and quite frankly, bloody stressful! She finally decided to show her ugly face late yesterday, on a Sunday of all days, so I had to wait until this morning to phone the ACU for further instructions. The nurse said if it had been one day later, we would've had to postpone the round for another month, meaning EC would be pushed back until January. The reason being, I have to fit in two weeks of taking the contraceptive pill to regulate my cycle before starting down regulation drugs on the 13th November, if it's less than two weeks, the protocol won't work. I'm just relieved that we are still able to go ahead and have all the treatment before Christmas.

So what have we been doing since our initial consultation last month? Mission IVF is now in full flow and we have ticked off quite a few items of the agenda already.

We've ordered and picked up the drugs from Boots at Kingston Hospital - Maexeni contraceptive pill, Suprecur (buserelin) nasal sprays, Menopur injection vials (stims) and Cyclogest progesterone pessaries. Seeing all the boxes sitting on my kitchen table has definitely made it all seem very real. We've both had all our blood tests - HIV, Hepatitis B & C and Jon has dropped off yet another sperm sample, making sure to keep it warm during the journey! I actually joked about him falling off his bike on the way to the hospital and spilling his precious cargo all over the road, but it probably wouldn't have been that funny come to think of it. I've also booked in my trial embryo transfer for next week. I just assumed this was commonplace but after speaking to a few women online, it seems that this isn't the case. I'm now worrying whether it'll be painful, given my history with painful smear tests and hysteroscopies.

I've bought myself a beautiful IVF diary from Bearface Prints, as you can gather by now, I like to document things. I wrote a cringeworthy journal every day as a teenager and was mortified when one day my Mum found it under my bed when she was having a good tidy. I later found out that she also keeps a diary so I guess it must run in the family! There's space to record all the medication dates which is extremely useful for me, if I don't write everything down, I'll most certainly forget. There are also pages for you to log how you're feeling at certain times during the process. It came with a lovely personalised note from Natalie the store owner, who has obviously been through IVF herself. The diary has certainly been made with a lot of thought and love.

I have also given up caffeine, which has actually been a lot easier than I anticipated. I swapped the humble English Breakfast bag or BST (Bog Standard Tea as my mother-in-law calls it) for peppermint tea a few years ago due to my stomach issues, but I do love a good coffee, especially first thing in the morning. I would even go as far to say, like many of us these days, I'm a coffee snob. There is one brand of instant that I'm more than happy to drink and luckily it also comes in a decent decaffeinated form...

So there's my tip for anyone struggling to find a nice decaff. Nescafé Azera 'Barista Style' Instant Coffee is going to be my saviour over the next couple of months!

As much as I'd love to sit here and write an entire entry dedicated to coffee, there are more pressing matters presently at the forefront of my mind. As I mentioned at the start of the post, today is (finally) cycle day 1, which means the start my IVF protocol. Wish us luck!