Progress

After visiting my GP two years ago, I was referred for a pelvic ultrasound at St. Helier Hospital. I'd stopped taking the contraceptive pill 18 months previous with no success so we were keen to find out if there were any complications. The results of the ultrasound were fairly inconclusive, but I appeared to be ovulating which was encouraging.

Because nothing significant showed up on the ultrasound, I didn't return to my doctor for another 12 months. We'd moved house shortly after the last hospital appointment and it took time to settle into the new neighbourhood and change doctors, I guess we again just assumed we would conceive naturally during this time. What happened next changed all our lives forever - my father suddenly and unexpectedly passed away on 1st December 2015 from a massive heart attack. My world was completely turned upside down, I adored my daddy. For a few months, whilst I was going through the various horrific stages of grief, I couldn't even bear to think about children. It was too painful to comprehend that my Papa would now never meet his grandchild or that our son or daughter would grow up never knowing my lovely dad. On the other side of the coin, mum's deep sadness turned into longing for a little person to fill a small part of the colossal hole dad had left in our lives.

After a few very sad and challenging months, I booked an appointment at the new practice and went through my history with my new GP. She was really supportive and referred me to the gynaecology unit at Queen Mary's Hospital in Roehampton. I had my first appointment at the clinic in June of last year.

Two months later I had been booked in for a transvaginal pelvic scan and hysterosalpingogram - thankfully abbreviated to HSG. The first is an ultrasound which involves the insertion of a probe, enabling detailed images of the uterus and the ovaries to be obtained. The second is an x-ray using dye to determine if the fallopian tubes are open and to see if the uterus is a normal size and shape. I can only compare this to a lengthy smear test, it didn't hurt but it was assuredly uncomfortable. After these procedures I was given a mixed bag of good and bad news. The dye had travelled freely through my tubes which meant there were no blockages but my uterus appeared to be an abnormal shape. I had no idea what this meant and I wasn't given anymore information at the time.

During the follow-up appointment in October 2016 - my first meeting with Consultant Obstetrician & Gynaecologist, Mr Emmanuel Kalu - we talked about the results of the scan, the irregular shape of my uterus and the possibility that I could be suffering with endometriosis. And that was my first introduction to the condition. En-doh-mee-tree-oh-sis.

After studying the ultrasound and HSG results he tried to illustrate the possible semblance of my womb with a series of drawings. Doctor's scribbles are as bad as their handwriting so I've redrawn them for the purpose of my blog - I do like a good doodle. He suggested that he would be very surprised if the outcome wasn't option B or C.

Bog standard uterus

Arcurate uterus -  looks like a normal uterus, except it has a dip or a slight indentation at the top.

Septate uterus - the inside of the uterus is divided by a muscular or fibrous wall called the septum.

Mr Kalu advised I would need a further procedure called a laparoscopy to determine if I was suffering from endometriosis. It would also reveal which of the three illustrations resembled the shape of my uterus, which would be critical if we wanted to have children. He explained about the small incisions he would make in my belly button (wince) and abdomen and the possible surgery he would carry out if endometriosis was found. I felt confident and happy being under his wing. We discussed private health care as this is something I could claim through my insurance at work, he agreed this would be the most favourable option.

Of course I went home and googled endometriosis straight away. I read pages and pages about the condition. I was astounded to discover that 1 in 10 women suffer with it in varying degrees. If it's so common, why has it not been mentioned before by my GPs, considering my previous history?

My first laparoscopy was booked in for 10th December, six weeks after my appointment with Mr Kalu. Unfortunately I had to postpone the operation due to suffering with a chest infection the previous week, I was devastated. I had to wait eight weeks for another date - Saturday 4th February 2017.